9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING SEX

9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO DURING SEX

So many things happen when you are in bed with your lover.
However, you must follow some simple guidelines…

These guidelines are meant to be strictly adhered to because a few blunders can totally spoil the tone of the moment.

1. Not kissing

So many people do not see any necessity in kissing their partners during sex. Some base this on the excuse that the positioning doesn’t allow for it or they are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm. However, whatever the case may be, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the act – it will only add to the experience.

2. Biting before your partner’s ready

Although some people like aggressive partners, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off. You might have to check that your partner enjoys it before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.

3. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts

When you leave out some parts of your partner untouched, it sends out so many signals. You need to gently caress sexualized areas as this will help in exciting your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back.

4. Putting your weight on your partner

Quite a lot of people lose themselves in the moment. Yes, it is okay but there has to be caution. You must endeavor not to choke your partner up just because you are on top of them. Do not totally forget you are right on someone by dropping your weight on them. This can kill the moment.

5. Climaxing too soon/ too late

This one is especially for men. You need to have good control on your muscles to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they're pumping iron at the gym. To avoid this, spend a lot more time on foreplay (this will help men as well as women). If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour.

6. Not warning your partner before you climax

If you're going to let go - and this applies even to women - whether during oral sex or intercourse, you need to tell your partner beforehand. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. Your partner deserves to know.

7. Treating sex like porn

Although some couples enjoy having raunchy sex, you'd be wise to talk to your partner before you engage in such behaviour. If you begin being nasty with your lover without knowing if they like it first, chances are the scenario won't end on a happy note.

8. Staying quiet

Do you like to hear it when your partner is having a good time? So pay them the same respect and speak up when you're enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, "that feels so good," will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones.

9. Mechanical act

It may feel comfortable to you to pump away like you do at the gym, but you'll quickly discover that most people don't enjoy such an act. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times, then slowly. Be creative and you'll find yourself enjoying some variation too.